Men and women think completely differently. I never used to believe the whole “Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars” saying, but every day it’s sounding more true. I’ve read all the recommended dating books, watched all the romantic comedies, and with a good bottle of wine I have helped myself and friends get through every crappy heartbreak. I’ve been through my fair share of relationships and it never seems to get easier, does it? Keep reading to know the tell-tale signs if you really need to be worried or not.Īs a single woman in my mid-twenties, I can definitely admit that I still don’t know everything when it comes to dating. It’s important to make sense of the relationship he has with these women. If that’s the case, I’m asking you, why do you want to be with him? Perhaps he just doesn’t want to upset you, but chances are there’s something more going on. If he’s covering up hanging out with her, then he’s obviously trying to hide something. Think back to when you found out about him hanging out with other girls. If he didn’t, then are you carrying in emotional baggage from the ghosts of your past relationships? If he broke your trust, why are you giving him another chance to break it again? Your boyfriend lied about hanging out with a girl and you find out somehow. I want you to take a step back and think.ĭid he break your trust or was it never given? There’s a fine line when it comes to trust. If you’re reading this article, I’m guessing your relationship is probably already teetering on the very steeeeeeeeeeeeep edge to unhealthy. My Boyfriend Hung Out With a Girl and Didn’t Tell Me The same respect should be given to your man. If there are concerns, then they need to be talked about. That is where communication and trust comes into play. It isn’t fair that any partner asks me to end my friendships because of their insecurities In that life, friendships existed with both men and women. I need wine and reality TV, a little gossiping, and time spent doing activities that my boyfriend sometimes has to be pestered into doing. I usually want to spend time with him above anyone else, but I know that I need time with my friends. I often find that my boyfriend becomes my best friend. It creates space to miss each other and an opportunity to show trust. Time away from the relationship is healthy. In fact, it’s actually a toxic and narcissistic trait when it starts becoming an issue. It’s okay to hang out with your friends or family without your partner. You both should feel like you have space to breathe and be able to do the things that you enjoy. I know it’s hard, but in all relationships, it’s important to have some independence, as well. You’ll get frustrated and the situation will only end messy and not how you want it to. It’ll feel like you’re constantly going around in a circle and you’ll find yourself in the exact same spot- like trying to explain your feelings when it comes to him hanging out with other girls. If you can’t work through anything, you’ll never get anywhere. Without talking, conflicts can never be resolved. I’ve had enough practice to know that, if you can’t talk to each other, your friendship will eventually fade. If a partnership wants to work, then, most importantly, they need to have strong communication. In order for two people to work, the bond between them needs to be healthy. Now, in order to get a better sense of what’s going on we need to dig in deeper into your relationship! If you are truly important to him, he wouldn’t do anything to mess that up. What’s important is that you both are committed to each other. You’re laying the foundation which helps make less of a mess after a heartbreak – but, I’m switching topics and that’s a post for a different day! I strongly believe in daily self-love.īy loving yourself you create a strong protecting barrier in case someone you love leaves your life. You should not only remind yourself that you deserve love from someone, but you need to remind yourself that you deserve love from yourself, as well. Past failed relationships make it easy to forget that you’re wanted, needed, and loved. That in itself should be a bit comforting for you.
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